No matter what it is that you are getting started in it is very important that you have the right mindset! Even if you’ve been started keeping this mindset or even beginning to implement this mindset into your business is very KEY! So here are a few key things to get you started and keep you going!

Getting Started Mindset

1. Make the Decision to Start

2. Realize their is a Learning Curve, Learn all you can!

3. Realize their will be highs and lows, like a roller coaster

4. Develop the Right Mental Attitude-
The Three SW“s  – Some Will, Some Won’t, So What and NEXT

5. Have Long Term Thinking

6. NEVER Quit

All of these things are very important to remember and put into practice in your business. Just keep going and work your rear end off.

What you desire will happen!

*****One more important thing to remember is keep your EMOTIONS out of your business. Because if you build your business by emotion (especially negative emotion) you won’t have  a business at all.

To Your  Success,

Jessica Moffitt

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

As you can see my last post was in December. I took a little time off for the holidays and living dreams. Now I’m back at it and raring to go. Excited to see the dreams and goals I have for 2011 become a reality.

Well here is the final post for the Willing to Win Series. Are you willing? Do you have what it takes?

10. THERE IS NOTHING IN LIFE BUT CHOICES:

Virtually all of your problems can be solved just by doing something. There is only one thing in life that we don’t have a choice to do or not to do and that is making choices. We make decisions every single day of our life. If we try to stumble through life without making choices, then someone else is going to do it for us…it’s important that we make our own choices in life.

Choose what you want out of life, set your goals and be committed to mastering whatever your choice may be. Become a master of what ever it is that you love to do and then do it better, and become the best! You must have a plan of what you are going to do in life. Pick what it is that you love and go for it and why not get paid to do what you love!

If you love what you do, you will never work another day in your life…you will enjoy being where you are, and view Monday’s as if they were Friday’s and actually enjoy going to the office, work or whatever it is that you do. (For me it’s the arena training my horses!) No one can do for you what you can do for yourself and it is up to each of us to take our life into our hands, accept the responsibility for our own actions and learn from what we’ve done in the past. After doing a self-check into our own feelings, deeds, thoughts and our relationships to others and the Lord, take notes on the positive and negative make changes and move forward to bigger and better things.

Throughout our life, we must never allow emotions like: fear, negative thinking and panic to get in our way. People are extremely successful when they follow a solid set of rules, and then lose the kitchen sink when they reach their self-destruct point. They forget what got them to the successful point in their life and let many of the factors that kept them down at one point, creep back into their minds…they lose the fast track to success and fall victim to their own set of failure baggage.

We are all on a great journey in life and must make a choice to live our life full of joy and happiness or full of negative hopelessness. My belief is the only way to have this is to have a personal relationship with the ONE who gives joy and happiness. That too is a choice we all must make. Who will we serve in our life?

The journey we are on is not an easy one, it takes dedication, and endurance. But if we will commit everyday that we will change our thinking, change our life then we will arrive at the destination we so desire.

I wish everyone would stand back take a few deep gulps of air, take inventory of where you are, where you want to be and then decide to either take the giant step to get there and then, do what ever needs to be done to do it…and then do it.

But please, no excuses, no detours and no playing the ‘poor me’ game along the way…we are either going to be successful at what we choose to do, or we will be off looking for some other ‘get rich quick’ program that looks good on paper but SADLY, never works well in the real world. You’ve seen them and I know many folks, who have tried them only to learn that…the only people that made the money was the guy who sold it to you.

I do wish you my very best and I will continue to help in any way possible, but I can’t force you along the way, and neither can anyone else. The help is there, but it is up to you to step up, and take advantage of the aid offered, in order to further your learning curve. I do not let anything stop me from doing what I feel will give my family a comfortable life in the future.

Contact me (personally) whenever the need comes up where you may need a ‘Hand Slap’ or a ‘kick start’ to get you motivated again…outside of this, I just don’t know what else I can do to get you where you wish to be.

So go ahead do what you have to do and make the choice to change yourself, your future,……YOUR LIFE!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

I know that posting this series of  “Willing to Win” has taken me a little longer to post that I had originally planned, but here’s point 9!

9. GIVE UP THE WAY IT IS TO HAVE IT THE WAY YOU WANT IT:

People have told me, “they have read the books, gone to the seminars, and done it all but it is so difficult to change”.  It is not difficult to change especially when putting up with the excuses and self-destructive behavior actually becomes more difficult to deal with.

What the real truth is  when you are willing to give up suffering, you can get anything you want out of life. When you are sick and tired of being sick and tired, when you’ve had enough of not having enough then that is the day you will turn your life around…but, most people must wait until their back is up against the wall before they are willing to make a change in their life. If you want to give up something that will get you on the road to change and have it happen quickly…then give up the notion that it takes a LONG TIME to change.

Changing your life starts with the mind to change your life! When you are ready to change mentally, you will then take action and actually create the lifestyle you desire.

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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I haven’t heard this song in a really long time. And the other day I heard it as I was out in the barn with the horses. I really tried to pay attention to the words and after the song was over I thought ‘That is  a perfect post!’  So here it is…. if you’ve never heard it I will give you a link so you can listen to it.

“The River”
by Garth Brooks

You know a DREAM is like a river
Ever changin’ as it flows.
And a DREAMER’S just a vessel
That must follow where it goes.
Trying to learn from what’s behind you,
And never knowing what’s in store.
Makes each day a constant battle
Just to stay between the shores.

And I will sail my vessel
‘Til the river runs dry.
Like a bird upon the wind
These waters are my sky.
I’ll never reach my destination
If I never try.
So I will sail my vessel
‘Til the river runs dry.

Too many times we stand aside,
And let the waters slip away.
‘Til we put off ’til tomorrow
It has now become today.
So don’t you sit up on the shoreline
And say you’re satisfied
Choose to chance the rapids
And dare to dance the tide.

There’s bound to be rough waters
And I know I’ll take some falls.
But with the Good Lord as my Captain
I can make it through them all.

Listen To It Here

To All Your Dreams,

Jessica Moffitt

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MY EVENTS:

OPEN OPPORTUNITY WEBINR

PERSONAL EMPOWERMENT WEBINAR

JUST TO NAME A FEW!

To Your Duplication Success,

Jessica Moffitt

8. KNOW THAT IT’S OK TO MAKE MISTAKES:

We are going to make mistakes and we need to separate ourselves from who we are and what we do. If we stand back and observe our behavior and note our mistakes we can approach a place where we can change the way we do things and then feel more at ease in knowing that it is OK to make mistakes, if we are willing to learn what went wrong and take the necessary steps to change the path that we were on.

How many people do you know that have failed BIG? I know many including myself and if you feel that you cannot accept success until you’ve failed big and haven’t done that yet…then you had better get busy. For if you are participating in life at some point you are going to fail, things are not going to work out all the time…it just won’t happen because that’s life.

We all are going to make mistakes, fail, spend a lot of money on something we feel is the “next big thing” for it not to work out as hoped, BUT the key is learning from those failures and mistakes and move on. Learn the next step, what is it that you need to implement to make your current business not fail the way your last one did.

NEVER, NEVER Give Up! That’s not allowed in the world of success. Those who fall and get back up and push harder for success are the ones who will make it!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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We are getting so close to being finished with this series of posts. Hope you all are learning from them and being encouraged by them too!

7.  IT’S NORMAL TO HAVE PROBLEMS:

A problem in this business, is the difference between what I have and what I want…and the secret in this difference is simply to bring the two together. We are all in the problem solving business, not real estate, or any other primary opportunity you may have available.

Thinking positive is OK in itself, BUT much more needs to be done other than just thinking positive. We can’t run from the problems, but rather we must learn to face them and defeat them, thus learning the how and why as we work through every situation that comes along.

Every time we solve a problem and think we have it all together then another problem will come along. We will never have all the problems solved, but we can learn from them as we go through life and take care of them as they occur. I have never met anyone who had it all together. I’ve met some that thought they had it together, but there is no such thing in anyone’s life.

Problems are here and they will always be here and it is like that old saying “when your up to your neck in alligator’s, it’s hard to remember that the initial objective was to drain the swamp.” Alligator’s represent the problems that we face.  We must be bigger than anything that life may throw at us and who we are and who we want to be is bigger than any problem that can be put in your way through your life.

Robert Schuler said, “tough times don’t last, but tough people do“, and that is so true.

I have my own fair share of trials in life occurring at the moment, but I must not let those become the obstacles they could be if I dwelt on them. I need to keep pressing forward and do what is right and I know that I will succeed!

Same Goes in Your Life Too!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

6. GIVE UP THE NEED FOR APPROVAL:

I may not know all of the secrets to success, but the way to failure is in trying to please everybody…this cannot be done.  If you are seeking the approval of others then you will never go for the things you truly desire in life. Because you will have people all around you say you are crazy and will try to discourage you or make you think that you don’t have what it takes to get those things.

The trap everyone falls into in trying to win approval is “what will they say if I do this?”  This should be of little interest to you for if they think it, they will say it and when we are gone, they will still think and say what they felt and no amount of approval seeking from you or I will ever change their feelings or thoughts.

Even if we changed the way we are 100% to please those that presently don’t agree with our ways…the bad thing is that the ones that like us now, wouldn’t be able to stand us then and you wouldn’t be happy at all. Because if you are conforming to what those who disagree with you say about your business and the things you are striving to reach then you will not be living your destiny….a no win situation.

Watch out in your life for the ‘negative influence of other people’…every group or every organization has a N.I.O.P (ny-op)…they love to be negative and they are the type of person that brightens up a room, the minute they ‘walk out of it’. You have met these people before, they walk through life with mental malnutrition between their ears…listen to someone like this for 5 minutes and you start believing that life is horrible and you’ll never be able to accomplish what you so desire to accomplish.

You must understand that when you are up and positive, you make others feel ill and the reason is that your positive and alive approach to living, makes their ‘deadness’ so much more apparent and real. Most people are actually mentally dead but still moving and they have accepted their lot in life without the slightest intention of seeking any changes for the better. We see this negative feeling in people when we are trying to share our business opportunities and dreams with them..you can see in their eyes…they are not interested and will do as much as they can to discourage you from trying to improve your position in doing this they have not given you the approval you were initially looking for.  But it is up to you to realize that in their eyes you see only jealousy and envy and the fear which they hold, and the failure of them to improve their own lives.

Walk to the beat of only one drummer and that needs to be you…you will never win everyone over and you will never be able to please everyone.

Stay Tuned there is more to come!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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Half-way through in our Willing to Win series! Hope all of you are enjoying what you are reading and being inspired to WIN!

5. FREE OF FEAR:

The one single thing that rules most people’s life is fear. Most of what we do throughout our life is fear motivated. We want to succeed because we are afraid of failure, or we want money because we’re afraid of poverty. Have you ever notice that the thing you don’t want is the thing that runs your life? You don’t want people to control you, so they control you…you don’t want to feel weak, so you feel weak…you don’t want to be rejected, so your rejected, you don’t want to be sick, so your sick, you don’t want to be nervous in front of people, so your nervous in front of people, you don’t want to be broke, so your broke.

When we are willing to experience the things we don’t want in our life then we can be free of them. When we learn to give up all of these fears within our life, then we can be free of them because we are choosing not to fear them but face them as a choice. Whatever we chose to do in life, we must choose it as a choice and not because we are fear motivated. One of the worst things that we can do is let our fears immobilize us into a state of zombie like inaction…you can only have in life what you are not afraid of. Associate with those who are looking for the same things you are trying to achieve and copy that life style, don’t let anything or anyone hold you back or talk you down from your desired goals. Find someone who has beat the ‘fear’ bug and get educated on it and learn from it.

Well that was short and sweet and too the point! Make up in your mind what it is that you want and don’t be afraid of it! Don’t be afraid of those around you and what they may think about your “unrealistic” or “crazy” dreams…. They don’t understand, but they will when you decide that you won’t let fear rule and you and those dreams become a reality in your life!

GO MAKE IT HAPPEN, NO FEAR!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

The Network Marketing Cowgirl