Wow! Already number 3 before you know it we’ll be at 10 and Willing to Win!

3. TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE:

The starting point to success is being responsible for the quality of your own life. Responsibility means the ability to respond rather than feel victimized…most people when their life’s not working, feel victimized. When I talk to people, I find most will have a VICTIM story…it’s not their fault, it’s someone else’ fault. They aren’t successful because…….. (you fill in the blank)

The healthy assumption that healthy people make of their life is that they…are responsible for the quality of their life. Responsibility does not mean guilt it just means that consciously or unconsciously I place myself in a situation…but I have the power to change that, but in order to change I must realize that I was responsible for creating it from the start, and great care must be taken not to repeat the same mistakes. This is sort of like complaining about the same lunch everyday to a fellow office worker, and he remarks “Why don’t you have your wife make something else for you”…you answer, “I can’t, I make my own lunch…I’m not married.” We make our own lunch, and the sooner we come to realize that, the further along the road to success we will be.

Sometimes the victim story in our life comes from ignorance…no one wants their relationships to fail, or not have any money, or wants their business endeavors to fail. If any of those things are happening it’s because somewhere along the line you have a made a decision that has played a part in any of those circumstances. Successful relationships take work, owning a business takes work, making money takes work. So at some point you decided to stop working and just let it fall apart. Now you are playing the victim because everything seems to be falling apart in your life.  (Now I do understand reality and sometimes things just happen, but just because something is hard in our life doesn’t mean we stop working at it and play the poor pitiful me game. Look ahead, stay positive, and keep working. NEVER PLAY THE VICTIM.)

You know more people are afraid to succeed then to fail. If you ask, most people will tell you the one thing they fear the most is to FAIL…but in actuality the fear of success will be what bothers most people, because when you are a success you can’t be a child anymore, because you will have to be responsible for your life. You’ll get more support in failure than you will in success…when your life doesn’t work, people will crowd around you, like puppies on a cold night and you’ll all get together and tell your victim stories about how it’s not going your way and they’ll say, “yeah, my life’s not working either” and that makes you right in your thinking. This ends up with a big bunch of losers gathering to share their failures…very counter productive way to go through your productive years.

The bad thing that happens is when your life is working…these same people will resent you. They resent you because if you are moving forward, their moving back and they’re going to resent you for your success…and this is something that you will need to accept in order to attain the success you want.

In order to have anything in life, we must first make it OK to have it before we go after it. You must make it OK inside of yourself first, in order to succeed you have to know exactly what you want and why you want it.  I believe many people have a misconstrued idea of success. We get that from those around us who misuse their success. We must all find a balance in life, but that does not mean you can’t be a success! It is very important that you  see yourself as being successful, go for it and keep on the track and know that it is OK for you to be this successful and to “have it all”.

If you don’t have what you want in life, you are in for profound ‘despair and you can lie about it and say it doesn’t matter and joke about it, but it really does matter and each one of us wants something and until we get that…we’re going to feel that something is missing in our lives.

So in conclusion, be responsible in your decisions and in your thinking. Quit having pity parties with your friends and talking about how bad you have it. Start thinking success! Figure out what you want and most importantly WHY you want it. (Just as a side note, if your WHY is selfish then you need to get a better WHY) Then GO for it! Work hard and GET IT! No more playing the victim only having success!

There you go! Does that step on a few toes? I hope so especially if you are playing the victim! Now maybe you will be inspired enough to take action and create your successful life!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

The Network Marketing Cowgirl

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Hope all of you have had a terrific day! Here’s Day 2 of the Willing to Win series!

Are You Prepared to Take Risks?

2. BE PREPARED TO TAKE RISKS: You  must be prepared to take risks and to make changes in order to grow. The more you get wrapped up into what you have, who you’re with, where you get your  income, or what your doing the more you relate to the person, place, or thing as being the source of your good…but, the source of your good is your ideas. You and I both have to be willing to back up our ideas with an expect-able level of risk.

If you are not willing to risk then you will definitely not know your full potential or really know at what level you can succeed. Rewards in life will always be in direct proportion to the risk…

No Risk = No Rewards

The more risks  you are willing to take the greater the reward is going to be for you.

The biggest risk of all, is NOT RISKING, because if you don’t risk you automatically LOSE.

How will you know unless you try. How do you know you can’t make 5 figures a month unless you truly try! How do you know you can’t recruit 10 reps per week unless you try… You know what you risk… You risk your comfort zone for what you truly want in life. That’s all, the only thing at risk here is your comfort zone!

With risk, comes CHANGE and there is no getting out of change. Things change constantly in our life!  Here’s a little fact for you… mental hospitals are filled with people who are unwilling or unable to accept change. You must be willing to accept change, and be willing to change in order to succeed in your life and network marketing business.

People that don’t risks are into security, their whole life is about trying to be safe and secure. The truth here is that if you looking for security then you were born on the wrong planet…there is NO security here…if you give up the need to be secure, you automatically will be secure. The only way for anyone to truly be secure is to turn positive thinking into results and to do this we must make it OK to risk and to make changes.

Go take some risks! Risk your comfort zone for the life you desire! You never know until you take a risk and try!

That’s all for Day 2! Stay Tuned for Session 3!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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For the Next 10 Days I’m going to be posting a series of posts in reference to my title Willing to Win!

Are you willing to win in life? Are you willing to do what it takes to win?

I have 10 different points I will share over the next 10 days, and I know that they will be an encouragement and inspiration to get you on the winning side!

TO MAKE THINGS HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE:

Of all the living organisms on earth, only the human being was born without a built in software program for success…we all must find it within ourselves to supply that missing piece in order to succeed and how we will do this is through the process of thought. The idea behind this is

“If I change the way I think, then I’ll change the way I behave”…

Ideas are thereby created into results.

All we have to do is to redirect our thinking to achieve the results we wish to have in our lives.

The First of  Ten Things to Remember:

1. CHANGE REASON INTO RESULTS:

There are 2 important things in our life…

1. Reason
2. Results

And guess what, REASONS DON’T COUNT. I can have every reason in the world, otherwise known as an excuse in most cases, and it will get me continuously NO WHERE in life!

So what we need, is to learn more about producing the desired results and stop coming up with excuses why we can’t do things. Most of the time people don’t have what they want in their life and they justify not having it, by having a barrel full of excuses.

…I’d like to be more successful…But
or I’d be more successful… if

...I’d like to meet the right person…But
or If the right person would come along then… (instead of YOU being the right person)

…I’d like to change jobs…But…

I’d like to increase my business…But…
or I could increase my business if someone would help me. (there is tons of help go find it)

I’d like to do this or I’d like to do that…But.

So, a HUGE BUT is what is keep you from getting the things you truly desire in life!

Once you figure out that the reason for not having success is your lazy BUT, then you will start to have the success and life you desire.

As a play on words… Get off your tush and Take ACTION! You’ll never get anywhere sitting on your BUT!

Pretty point blank I know but sometimes we need a kick in the rear to get us to see what’s causing us not to experience the success we truly desire.

STAY TUNED! Number 2 is on the way!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

The Network Marketing Cowgirl

We all know our desires come from our hearts. We say it is our heart’s desire to____________. Well, is our desire strong enough to make that desire a reality? To take more than enough action to make it happen?

When Your DESIRE is Clear
The DEVICE will Appear
And You will Reach your DESTINY

Let me explain what I’m referring to by these bolded words!

DESIRE = Deepest Commitment
DEVICE = The Instrument By Which We Reach our Desire (the HOW or WHAT to Do)
DESTINY= The Result of the Previous 2

So what is your deepest desire? What do you feel you are deeply committed to?

Do you have any 90 day goals set? Are you deeply committed to reaching those?

Are you letting others stop you from reaching your desires?

You know in all reality we could take out the device and just have DESIRE equals DESTINY.  The device you use to achieve your deepest commitment is really insignificant.  Because it is the DESIRE that drives us to our DESTINY.

Have you ever written down a goal, felt very strongly about reaching that goal, and when it came down to the finish line you had not achieved your goal and maybe even forgot about the goal you had set?  That goal really wasn’t what you were deeply committed to achieving. There was something else you were more committed to than that goal you had set.

So again I ask what is your deepest desire and are you deeply committed to that desire or is there something else you are more committed to.

Here’s an Example:

I am committed to lose 15 lbs in 90 days, but I am more committed to laziness, loving food, loving soda, fear of failure,  etc.  If I don’t reach my desired goal then there was something else I was more committed to.

So find out your deepest desire, then determine what it is going to require to attain that desire.  Then figure out what you probably are more committed to. If what you are more apt to doing is negative and going to stop you from reaching your deepest desire then GET RID OF THOSE things and REACH YOUR TRUE DESTINY!

Your Homework…..
*Write Down What You Are Committed To and a Realistic Time Frame
*Write Down What You Are MORE Committed To
*Denounce the Negative Things that Will STOP you From Reaching Your Destiny

I am committed to my goals and commitments which are: _______________________________________________

But, I am more Committed to:
_______________________________________________

I am Denouncing all of these NEGATIVE Things that will Stop Me from Reaching My DESTINY: _______________________________________________

Make a note and put it wherever you can see it the most stating what you are committed to and remind yourself and state that all day to keep you on track to your Deepest Desire….. Your Destiny!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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I wanted to share something with you that comes straight from the Bible. What a neat application I was able to get from this story! Please continue reading I know that you will be encouraged just as I was!

Luke 5:4-7

“And when he had finished speaking, he said to Simon, ‘Put out into the deep and let down your nets for a catch.’

And Simon answered, ‘Master, we toiled all night and took nothing! But at your word I will let down the nets.’

And when they had done this, they enclosed a large number of fish, and their nets were breaking.

They signaled to their partners in the other boat to come and help them. And they came and filled both the boats, so that they began to sink.”

Are you launching out into the deep of network marketing? Are you all in? If your not all in then you will not be successful in network marketing. You will not “catch” other marketers to join you in business!

These fishermen worked all night to no avail.. Do you feel like you work and work and work and work some more to no avail. All of us at the beginning felt that way. We were throwing our nets out there and just couldn’t “catch” anyone to join business with us.

BUT they threw their net one more time even when they felt it was no use, when all hope for success was lost.  And do you see what happened. They caught so many fish it started to sink two boats!

Keep throwing your net of ads, blogging, articles, facebook marketing, etc. You do not know what the next throw will bring in.  The next ad you post, the next marketer you connect with, the next article write, the next promotion your company has could be the one that fills your boat to the max that you don’t even know what to do with them all.

Perseverance in network marketing is KEY to your success. Keep Going! Don’t Quit! Keep your goals and future at the forefront of your mind. Get inspired and motivate yourself to do what you have been inspired by!

To Your Network Marketing Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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What does success mean to you?

I looked up success in a thesaurus and this is one of the words I found that is the same.

Achievement: something completed successfully; goal reached

In your network marketing business everyday is a success, because everyday you work you are one day closer to living your dreams. Whatever work you get accomplished for that day that you desired to do then you are successful!

STAY IN THE SUCCESSFUL ALREADY MINDSET!

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To Your Daily Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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I believe that it is very important to the success of your network marketing business to understand and know if you’re completely motivated, and what it takes to get yourself completely motivated.

Everyone is motivated differently, and in order to do the best in your marketing you need to understand what motivates you first and then what motivates those around you in the marketing arena.

I have been reading Tamara Lowe’s Get Motivated book and found some interesting facts about myself that I didn’t realize until reading this. Realizing the things that motivate and demotivate me has been KEY in keeping myself motivated on this journey of network marketing.

What kind of person are you?

-Are you more competitive or cooperative?

-Do you like things to stay the same or do like to change things up every once in a while?

-What makes you feel most appreciated?

-public recognition

-or just knowing inside that you’ve done something great

I believe that whoever you are and whatever you are doing it is a MUST to understand what motivates you and others around you! Knowing this doesn’t just help you in your network marketing endeavors it will also be very beneficial to your family life too! Your children and your spouse are all motivated differently than you are. Help them by understanding what motivates and demotivates them so that they can also excel to their best ability.

Being motivated allows the best to come out and you will be able to accomplish sooo much more when you and the ones you are working with are completely motivated!

Network Marketing is about people working together with other people, right? Then doesn’t it make sense to understand what motivates you and the people around you? Understanding how you can work together as a team just by knowing what motivates each other?

The purpose of this is to give you a hunger and thirst to learn more about motivation so that you and your team can excel to the absolute best of your ability.

The book GET MOTIVATED has helped me tremendously and I know that it will help you! That’s why I’m sharing this, because I want to help you succeed!

It is a must read for anyone!

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DO SOMETHING TO HELP YOURSELF AND SOMEONE ELSE TOO!

To Your Motivated Success,

Jessica Moffitt

I was so inspired last night by a friend that it led me to develop this post from the inspiration I received from him!

We all know the Biblical principle, “You reap what you sow.” That same principle applies to our network marketing businesses too!

The first thing you need to remember is that your business will NEVER pay you like a job…with a job you know what you do today will generate revenue next week….Well in your NETWORK MARKETING business there is a lot of sowing and more sowing and at first it seems fruitless. BUT once you hit that reaping stage, you will realize again that a job will NEVER pay you like your business will! You will sit back and wonder why you are getting paid what you are!

My friend said,

“Before I hit high six figures in this industry I worked and worked and worked…When I got to 20K a month, I realized that I didn’t work any harder to get to 20K than I did when I was trying to get 2K.”

The reason he didn’t have to work harder is because all of his sowing compounded over time and he was able to reach 10x the lower income just by keeping steady and working hard. (Remember Daily Consistent Action)

Really at a job it doesn’t matter how hard you work you are still going to get paid the same. (Unless you don’t work hard and they fire you.)

In your network marketing business it all goes by the “what you sow is what you reap” rule.

If you’ve ever planted a garden or maybe even a field you understand that not every seed will sprout and produce. So you must plant enough seeds to make sure you get a full crop!

If you sow a little then you will reap a little and maybe not even at all, because you didn’t sow enough. BUT if you sow a lot and keep sowing everyday, you will have a constant flow of reaping!

Most marketers give up and quit sowing way to quickly, that is why they never see results. It’s like they plant a field and forget they planted it so they never know what came up and what didn’t.

Take the sunflower at the top of my page for example….

A Sunflower takes 90-100 days from a seed to actually become a mature plant that is ready to harvest.
And 1 Sunflower produces up to 2000 seeds.

Just from these two facts alone we can learn so much about our sowing in network marketing.

A seed does not grow and produce fruit immediately. It needs special care and time, but at the end of it’s growing season it has a beautiful reward for the sower, the fruit!

So in your business, SOW ALOT, take special care, and give it some time. It will produce 10x, 20x, 50x, etc over what you sowed.

Just from 1 seed the sunflower produced 2000 more seeds!

YOU WILL REAP WHAT YOU SOW! BUT sowing takes work, patience, and time!

To Your Sowing and Reaping Success,

Jessica Moffitt

If we stay in our comfort zone we will never achieve anything of value. Our dreams are beyond the horizon of this zone and we must exit before the horizon slips out of sight.

Victory can only be achieved outside of what feels natural to you… My comfort zone is not doing videos, but I must do them to better myself as a person and as a business woman to be the success I desire to be. To get to the next level of success in my life.

What is your comfort zone? Do something to get out of it!

Ask Yourself these Questions Before Leaving the Zone

-Has anyone else done this?
-What is the worst thing that could happen?
-What is the Best thing that can happen?
-Can I “try it out” first?
-Is there any room for mistakes?
-Is there enough drive to make it through?
-Do I believe I can?
-Do I believe in my team?
-Has God clearly told me to do this?

To Your “OUT OF ZONE” Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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There are things you must implement into your mind and life in order to make sure you are successful. These things may seem small or simple, but they are EXTREMELY important!

To Ensure Success

1-You NEED a Burning Desire
2-You NEED a Definite Purpose
3-You NEED to have a Plan of Action and TAKE Action to accomplish your Purpose

Then most importantly with these three things is to WRITE THEM DOWN!

Start now and analyze your desires to find out what your definite purpose is in those desires. Remember you are the only one who can create a definite purpose in your life.. No one else, humanly speaking, can create that for you.  We all have a purpose in life. God has given us each one a purpose and we must find out the purpose He has for us.

After you figure out your purpose you need to ask yourself these questions…

-What are you going to do about it?
-When are you going to set out to accomplish it?
-How are you going to accomplish it?

Make sure your aim is clear and it must be backed up with persistence that does not know the word impossible.  To accomplish anything it is going to take hard work, commitment, diligence, and persistence. None of those things know the word impossible!

If your aim in life is vague, your achievements will also be vague and very meager. That is why you must have a clear and definite aim for your life and network marketing business.

You MUST KNOW These Four Things

1) What you want
2) When you want it
3) Why you want it
4) How you are going to get it

There are also specific steps you must take to start on the path to accomplish what it is you desire.

Step 1 – Decide your major aim
Step 2 – Write out a CLEAR, concise statement of your aim.
Step 3 – What is your plan to attain the object
Step 4 – Get with others who can encourage you in your goals that will push you to keep going to meet those goals.

“Whatever you want you may get – if you want it with sufficient intensity, and keep wanting it, providing the object wanted is one within reason, and you actually believe you will get it.” ~Napoleon Hill from Law of Success

A very important fact to remember:

If you believe you can achieve your definite purpose in life then you must not ever recognize the word “impossible” or acknowledge temporary defeat.

You must know that you will succeed and if one plan fails you must quickly replace it with another plan of action to accomplish that specific purpose.

Take Action, NEVER GIVE UP!

Consistent and Persistent Action is KEY to your success!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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