Sorry I’m behind on my posting. I was sick last weekend so the last few days have been playing catch up! But here’s point number 4 for you so enjoy and start Winning!

4. CREATE A FUTURE INSTEAD OF DEFENDING THE PAST:

Blaming our current place in life on anything such as: our parents, our mates, our friends or some other event of our past is a total waste of time and creative energy. Your life growing up could have been horrible, hard and less than to be desired. And maybe life now is too and you may be very well justified in feeling the way that you do, you may be right and everyone else is wrong, BUT you must leave this in the past and press forward moving on knowing that you can be successful, you can change your life, your current circumstances into what you desire them to be. The only person who can change your outlook on life is you! And YES the process may seem long and hard in itself, but if you make up your mind that all the excess baggage of past and evil memories will not hinder you from moving forward in your life to attain the life you desire to have! To LIVE YOUR DREAMS and Be Fulfilled! We cannot change the past, BUT we can change how the past affects our current and future life!

The perfect verse in the Word of God for this very topic is

Philippians 3:13

“…forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead,”

Part of being wise is learning from the past. Don’t get caught up in blaming yourself or anyone else. Whatever has happened in your life is for a purpose and one of those purposes is so that you can help others who may have or even be experiencing the same things you have. You must put yourself into a mindset and position to help those around you! Turn your negative experience into positive and change your life and help someone else change theirs too!

Forgetting those things which are behind and press forward look around and find your purpose in life! We all have one!

Make that your goal and change the world starting with yours!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

Wow! Already number 3 before you know it we’ll be at 10 and Willing to Win!

3. TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE:

The starting point to success is being responsible for the quality of your own life. Responsibility means the ability to respond rather than feel victimized…most people when their life’s not working, feel victimized. When I talk to people, I find most will have a VICTIM story…it’s not their fault, it’s someone else’ fault. They aren’t successful because…….. (you fill in the blank)

The healthy assumption that healthy people make of their life is that they…are responsible for the quality of their life. Responsibility does not mean guilt it just means that consciously or unconsciously I place myself in a situation…but I have the power to change that, but in order to change I must realize that I was responsible for creating it from the start, and great care must be taken not to repeat the same mistakes. This is sort of like complaining about the same lunch everyday to a fellow office worker, and he remarks “Why don’t you have your wife make something else for you”…you answer, “I can’t, I make my own lunch…I’m not married.” We make our own lunch, and the sooner we come to realize that, the further along the road to success we will be.

Sometimes the victim story in our life comes from ignorance…no one wants their relationships to fail, or not have any money, or wants their business endeavors to fail. If any of those things are happening it’s because somewhere along the line you have a made a decision that has played a part in any of those circumstances. Successful relationships take work, owning a business takes work, making money takes work. So at some point you decided to stop working and just let it fall apart. Now you are playing the victim because everything seems to be falling apart in your life.  (Now I do understand reality and sometimes things just happen, but just because something is hard in our life doesn’t mean we stop working at it and play the poor pitiful me game. Look ahead, stay positive, and keep working. NEVER PLAY THE VICTIM.)

You know more people are afraid to succeed then to fail. If you ask, most people will tell you the one thing they fear the most is to FAIL…but in actuality the fear of success will be what bothers most people, because when you are a success you can’t be a child anymore, because you will have to be responsible for your life. You’ll get more support in failure than you will in success…when your life doesn’t work, people will crowd around you, like puppies on a cold night and you’ll all get together and tell your victim stories about how it’s not going your way and they’ll say, “yeah, my life’s not working either” and that makes you right in your thinking. This ends up with a big bunch of losers gathering to share their failures…very counter productive way to go through your productive years.

The bad thing that happens is when your life is working…these same people will resent you. They resent you because if you are moving forward, their moving back and they’re going to resent you for your success…and this is something that you will need to accept in order to attain the success you want.

In order to have anything in life, we must first make it OK to have it before we go after it. You must make it OK inside of yourself first, in order to succeed you have to know exactly what you want and why you want it.  I believe many people have a misconstrued idea of success. We get that from those around us who misuse their success. We must all find a balance in life, but that does not mean you can’t be a success! It is very important that you  see yourself as being successful, go for it and keep on the track and know that it is OK for you to be this successful and to “have it all”.

If you don’t have what you want in life, you are in for profound ‘despair and you can lie about it and say it doesn’t matter and joke about it, but it really does matter and each one of us wants something and until we get that…we’re going to feel that something is missing in our lives.

So in conclusion, be responsible in your decisions and in your thinking. Quit having pity parties with your friends and talking about how bad you have it. Start thinking success! Figure out what you want and most importantly WHY you want it. (Just as a side note, if your WHY is selfish then you need to get a better WHY) Then GO for it! Work hard and GET IT! No more playing the victim only having success!

There you go! Does that step on a few toes? I hope so especially if you are playing the victim! Now maybe you will be inspired enough to take action and create your successful life!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

The Network Marketing Cowgirl

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Hope all of you have had a terrific day! Here’s Day 2 of the Willing to Win series!

Are You Prepared to Take Risks?

2. BE PREPARED TO TAKE RISKS: You  must be prepared to take risks and to make changes in order to grow. The more you get wrapped up into what you have, who you’re with, where you get your  income, or what your doing the more you relate to the person, place, or thing as being the source of your good…but, the source of your good is your ideas. You and I both have to be willing to back up our ideas with an expect-able level of risk.

If you are not willing to risk then you will definitely not know your full potential or really know at what level you can succeed. Rewards in life will always be in direct proportion to the risk…

No Risk = No Rewards

The more risks  you are willing to take the greater the reward is going to be for you.

The biggest risk of all, is NOT RISKING, because if you don’t risk you automatically LOSE.

How will you know unless you try. How do you know you can’t make 5 figures a month unless you truly try! How do you know you can’t recruit 10 reps per week unless you try… You know what you risk… You risk your comfort zone for what you truly want in life. That’s all, the only thing at risk here is your comfort zone!

With risk, comes CHANGE and there is no getting out of change. Things change constantly in our life!  Here’s a little fact for you… mental hospitals are filled with people who are unwilling or unable to accept change. You must be willing to accept change, and be willing to change in order to succeed in your life and network marketing business.

People that don’t risks are into security, their whole life is about trying to be safe and secure. The truth here is that if you looking for security then you were born on the wrong planet…there is NO security here…if you give up the need to be secure, you automatically will be secure. The only way for anyone to truly be secure is to turn positive thinking into results and to do this we must make it OK to risk and to make changes.

Go take some risks! Risk your comfort zone for the life you desire! You never know until you take a risk and try!

That’s all for Day 2! Stay Tuned for Session 3!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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For the Next 10 Days I’m going to be posting a series of posts in reference to my title Willing to Win!

Are you willing to win in life? Are you willing to do what it takes to win?

I have 10 different points I will share over the next 10 days, and I know that they will be an encouragement and inspiration to get you on the winning side!

TO MAKE THINGS HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE:

Of all the living organisms on earth, only the human being was born without a built in software program for success…we all must find it within ourselves to supply that missing piece in order to succeed and how we will do this is through the process of thought. The idea behind this is

“If I change the way I think, then I’ll change the way I behave”…

Ideas are thereby created into results.

All we have to do is to redirect our thinking to achieve the results we wish to have in our lives.

The First of  Ten Things to Remember:

1. CHANGE REASON INTO RESULTS:

There are 2 important things in our life…

1. Reason
2. Results

And guess what, REASONS DON’T COUNT. I can have every reason in the world, otherwise known as an excuse in most cases, and it will get me continuously NO WHERE in life!

So what we need, is to learn more about producing the desired results and stop coming up with excuses why we can’t do things. Most of the time people don’t have what they want in their life and they justify not having it, by having a barrel full of excuses.

…I’d like to be more successful…But
or I’d be more successful… if

...I’d like to meet the right person…But
or If the right person would come along then… (instead of YOU being the right person)

…I’d like to change jobs…But…

I’d like to increase my business…But…
or I could increase my business if someone would help me. (there is tons of help go find it)

I’d like to do this or I’d like to do that…But.

So, a HUGE BUT is what is keep you from getting the things you truly desire in life!

Once you figure out that the reason for not having success is your lazy BUT, then you will start to have the success and life you desire.

As a play on words… Get off your tush and Take ACTION! You’ll never get anywhere sitting on your BUT!

Pretty point blank I know but sometimes we need a kick in the rear to get us to see what’s causing us not to experience the success we truly desire.

STAY TUNED! Number 2 is on the way!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

The Network Marketing Cowgirl

We all know our desires come from our hearts. We say it is our heart’s desire to____________. Well, is our desire strong enough to make that desire a reality? To take more than enough action to make it happen?

When Your DESIRE is Clear
The DEVICE will Appear
And You will Reach your DESTINY

Let me explain what I’m referring to by these bolded words!

DESIRE = Deepest Commitment
DEVICE = The Instrument By Which We Reach our Desire (the HOW or WHAT to Do)
DESTINY= The Result of the Previous 2

So what is your deepest desire? What do you feel you are deeply committed to?

Do you have any 90 day goals set? Are you deeply committed to reaching those?

Are you letting others stop you from reaching your desires?

You know in all reality we could take out the device and just have DESIRE equals DESTINY.  The device you use to achieve your deepest commitment is really insignificant.  Because it is the DESIRE that drives us to our DESTINY.

Have you ever written down a goal, felt very strongly about reaching that goal, and when it came down to the finish line you had not achieved your goal and maybe even forgot about the goal you had set?  That goal really wasn’t what you were deeply committed to achieving. There was something else you were more committed to than that goal you had set.

So again I ask what is your deepest desire and are you deeply committed to that desire or is there something else you are more committed to.

Here’s an Example:

I am committed to lose 15 lbs in 90 days, but I am more committed to laziness, loving food, loving soda, fear of failure,  etc.  If I don’t reach my desired goal then there was something else I was more committed to.

So find out your deepest desire, then determine what it is going to require to attain that desire.  Then figure out what you probably are more committed to. If what you are more apt to doing is negative and going to stop you from reaching your deepest desire then GET RID OF THOSE things and REACH YOUR TRUE DESTINY!

Your Homework…..
*Write Down What You Are Committed To and a Realistic Time Frame
*Write Down What You Are MORE Committed To
*Denounce the Negative Things that Will STOP you From Reaching Your Destiny

I am committed to my goals and commitments which are: _______________________________________________

But, I am more Committed to:
_______________________________________________

I am Denouncing all of these NEGATIVE Things that will Stop Me from Reaching My DESTINY: _______________________________________________

Make a note and put it wherever you can see it the most stating what you are committed to and remind yourself and state that all day to keep you on track to your Deepest Desire….. Your Destiny!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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A couple days ago I was listening to a webinar and it REALLY impacted my mind and thought life! I can’t even really express the way it is just overwhelming my thoughts.

What is your deepest commitment? That is the question they asked. And next, Why are you letting people stop you from reaching your destiny?

You know it doesn’t have to be just others who are causing you to not follow through on your deepest commitment it could be yourself!

At times I allow things  such as frustration and blocked goals to stop me from reaching and fulfilling my deepest commitment. You and I must remain in the positive mindset and the success mindset if we are going to see our deepest commitments fulfilled!

Watch my video and get some more tips and insight on this thing called commitment!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

The Network Marketing Cowgirl

PS> As soon as the webinar is available I will be sure to send you a link so you can be as impacted as I was from the entire session!

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I wanted to share something with you that comes straight from the Bible. What a neat application I was able to get from this story! Please continue reading I know that you will be encouraged just as I was!

Luke 5:4-7

“And when he had finished speaking, he said to Simon, ‘Put out into the deep and let down your nets for a catch.’

And Simon answered, ‘Master, we toiled all night and took nothing! But at your word I will let down the nets.’

And when they had done this, they enclosed a large number of fish, and their nets were breaking.

They signaled to their partners in the other boat to come and help them. And they came and filled both the boats, so that they began to sink.”

Are you launching out into the deep of network marketing? Are you all in? If your not all in then you will not be successful in network marketing. You will not “catch” other marketers to join you in business!

These fishermen worked all night to no avail.. Do you feel like you work and work and work and work some more to no avail. All of us at the beginning felt that way. We were throwing our nets out there and just couldn’t “catch” anyone to join business with us.

BUT they threw their net one more time even when they felt it was no use, when all hope for success was lost.  And do you see what happened. They caught so many fish it started to sink two boats!

Keep throwing your net of ads, blogging, articles, facebook marketing, etc. You do not know what the next throw will bring in.  The next ad you post, the next marketer you connect with, the next article write, the next promotion your company has could be the one that fills your boat to the max that you don’t even know what to do with them all.

Perseverance in network marketing is KEY to your success. Keep Going! Don’t Quit! Keep your goals and future at the forefront of your mind. Get inspired and motivate yourself to do what you have been inspired by!

To Your Network Marketing Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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To Your Network Marketing and PICKLING Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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What does success mean to you?

I looked up success in a thesaurus and this is one of the words I found that is the same.

Achievement: something completed successfully; goal reached

In your network marketing business everyday is a success, because everyday you work you are one day closer to living your dreams. Whatever work you get accomplished for that day that you desired to do then you are successful!

STAY IN THE SUCCESSFUL ALREADY MINDSET!

You will see tremendous things happen!

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To Your Daily Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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