6. GIVE UP THE NEED FOR APPROVAL:

I may not know all of the secrets to success, but the way to failure is in trying to please everybody…this cannot be done.  If you are seeking the approval of others then you will never go for the things you truly desire in life. Because you will have people all around you say you are crazy and will try to discourage you or make you think that you don’t have what it takes to get those things.

The trap everyone falls into in trying to win approval is “what will they say if I do this?”  This should be of little interest to you for if they think it, they will say it and when we are gone, they will still think and say what they felt and no amount of approval seeking from you or I will ever change their feelings or thoughts.

Even if we changed the way we are 100% to please those that presently don’t agree with our ways…the bad thing is that the ones that like us now, wouldn’t be able to stand us then and you wouldn’t be happy at all. Because if you are conforming to what those who disagree with you say about your business and the things you are striving to reach then you will not be living your destiny….a no win situation.

Watch out in your life for the ‘negative influence of other people’…every group or every organization has a N.I.O.P (ny-op)…they love to be negative and they are the type of person that brightens up a room, the minute they ‘walk out of it’. You have met these people before, they walk through life with mental malnutrition between their ears…listen to someone like this for 5 minutes and you start believing that life is horrible and you’ll never be able to accomplish what you so desire to accomplish.

You must understand that when you are up and positive, you make others feel ill and the reason is that your positive and alive approach to living, makes their ‘deadness’ so much more apparent and real. Most people are actually mentally dead but still moving and they have accepted their lot in life without the slightest intention of seeking any changes for the better. We see this negative feeling in people when we are trying to share our business opportunities and dreams with them..you can see in their eyes…they are not interested and will do as much as they can to discourage you from trying to improve your position in doing this they have not given you the approval you were initially looking for.  But it is up to you to realize that in their eyes you see only jealousy and envy and the fear which they hold, and the failure of them to improve their own lives.

Walk to the beat of only one drummer and that needs to be you…you will never win everyone over and you will never be able to please everyone.

Stay Tuned there is more to come!

To Your Success,

Jessica Moffitt

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